The first Sunday of the month, the Relief Society lesson was on remembering and gratitude. The teacher shared a couple of talks, one given by Elder Eyering. I loved
this talk when he gave it in General Conference in 2007. When she went over it again it really helped my testimony to hear it and was the perfect start for the holiday season. With Thanksgiving coming up this Thursday, I thought I should do a post of things I'm grateful for to show my gratitude and appreciation for a few of the blessings I have (and probably take for granted).
A few of my friends have been posting almost everyday something new that they're grateful for, so in that same spirit I thought I would list 24 things I'm most grateful for.This year especially we've been extremely blessed and have so much to be grateful for so this might be hard to pin down just 24 of them, but I'll try.
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My Heavenly Father and my Elder Brother, Jesus. This might be stating the obvious, but especially lately, my testimony has really grown and I've really felt their love for me and for my family. I'm grateful for the ability to pray and know that they care and listen to me and provide for me. It's also because of them that I can be with my family for all of eternity. I am really blessed because of my relationship with them (if you want/need more information about them you can visit
lds.org or
mormon.org)
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Jed. I can really go on and on about why I'm grateful for him but I'll list just a few reasons. ;)
He's such an amazing husband and father. He is always so excited just to come home and spend time with me and the kids. He works hard to provide for us. He pushes me to be the best that I can and even puts up with all the random things I want to do or learn to do. He pushes himself to be the best. He's innovative, he's always coming up with something new to do or create. He runs to the store to buy me dessert at 11 pm for no reason except I was in the mood for something. He is a strong priesthood holder that takes his responsibility seriously. I can always count on him for anything. He opens my doors. He always takes out the trash so I never have to. He's goofy and makes me laugh. He's the love of my life! (There really is a lot more that I can add too)
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My kids. They make me laugh! They're always there for free hugs and kisses. They make me be a morning person, when I really don't want to be. They make me a better person and help me to open myself up in so many different ways. I learn from them constantly. They keep me on my toes. They are the best thing that I've ever done and I love them more than anything.
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Family. This year we've really relied on family a lot more. I really love my parents and siblings and am so grateful for them and all that they do for us. Because of them, I'm the person that I am today. I learned so much growing up from them and I love each of them for who they are as a person and who they are to me. I also love Jed's family. It's been really nice being able to get to know them better since we've moved closer to them. They REALLY helped us out and were there for us, especially while Jed was gone. Plus, Jed is who he is because of them, and if for nothing else, that would make me love and appreciate them. (fyi: in laws and our adopted family included in this....Love You too!)
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Friends. Friends just make life so much easier and fun. Since we've moved we all have people that we miss. Elijah really misses his friends too. He's always playing on his toy phone and "calling" one of his friends. Our friends were also there for me and made life easier for me when Jed was away. So a HUGE thank you to you all!
.Marriage. I'm extremely grateful for my marriage. It's more than me being grateful for Jed, I just love being with my best friend for all time and eternity. I'm happy that I have a good, strong and happy marriage. It's something that I really cherish, especially since my parents are divorced, I know how important a strong and happy marriage is.
.Temples. This is the place that brings peace and comfort into my life. Anytime I feel stressed or I need an answer about something, I know that I can go to the temple to get an answer. I'm also grateful for the things I learn in the temple and the covenants that I've made. Most importantly, I'm grateful that because Jed and I were sealed in the temple I can have an eternal family. I also love that Elijah loves temples. He's always so excited about them and he knows that because of temple ordinances we can be together forever and live with Heavenly Father and Jesus again.
.Our Home. I'm so grateful for our home! Besides the temple, this is my place of refuge. I love having a place to call my own. I try to create a peaceful home where everyone can come and feel the Spirit and feel welcomed. I'm so thankful for our new home, but I'm also grateful for all of the ones we've had before. They each hold a memory and I'm grateful for the time we've spent in each of them.
.My Heritage. I love having so many different cultures as part of my heritage. I think it helps me to accept others easily and their beliefs. I love learning about people and other cultures and beliefs. I think it helps me to have an open mind about things too. I'm grateful to my parents who taught me about my different cultures and heritages.
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Tithing. This might be weird but I'm really grateful to pay tithing. The blessings that we get (and not just with money) is amazing! I've never had a problem with tithing and have always done it, but right now, I can see what a difference it makes in my life. We got behind for a month which is something we've never done and it's tremendous the difference it made.
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Education. I'm so happy that Jed graduated this year. I'm also grateful for my own education (even as slight as it is). I love learning new things. I also love teaching my kids things. Elijah's favorite question is "why?" He is constantly asking it and even when I go into depth about something he still asks why which makes me have to study about it (or ask Jed... he knows everything)
.The Air Force. Well, besides some obvious reasons, I'm grateful because Jed has always wanted to join the Air Force. He even was in Civil Air Patrol when he was a youth. When we were dating he even asked my opinion about him joining (I told him that's fine, but sucks for whomever he marries lol). Besides it being a blessing in our lives, it was the answer to our prayers and has provided a way for me to stay home with the kids while Jed finished school.
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Projects. I'm really happy that I have interests that I'm able to develop into talents (well, try to develop into talents). Especially being a "homemaker", I find that I need an outlet to just be creative with. I have so many interests (baking, sewing, photography,etc) and I love being able to learn more and try them all.
.Internet. I'm grateful for the ability to connect with so many people in so many different places so easily. I also love that it provides so many inspirations for me.
.Food. Well, duh. But I'm really grateful to know that I have food. There are some places and people (sometimes people in my family) that don't know when/where their next meal is. I'm grateful to know that I have food and can provide food for my kids. I also just love to eat. Food brings out a different excitement in me. Sometimes when I hear or think of some sort of food/flavor combination I get obsessed and I really don't understand why others aren't as excited as I am (ie: dark chocolate bacon muffins...yum!)
.Water. About everyone knows that I'm a water snob, right? Well, I should show my gratitude to those who put up with me and my snobbiness and to those wonderful people that provide me with my reverse osmosis water (Jed fits into both categories). It is so good! It really is my favorite drink.
.Sushi. Yes, I've already said my piece about food, but sushi is another level of food. I'm not going to lie, one of the reasons I didn't want to leave California was because of sushi. I love the stuff. It's my favorite food. I was raised on it. It really is a comfort food to me, so it's been a little sad for me not to find the amazing sushi here like I had back in California. But that will make me appreciate it even more when I go back to visit, right?
.Flowers. Sherlock Holmes said in a book while admiring a rose, that it's these extra beauties in life that we know there is a God, because everything else in the world serves a purpose except for roses which are just extra to give us pleasure. (Paraphrasing). I agree. Besides, one of the only things Jed was able to send me while he was gone was flowers for our anniversary. They bring a beauty and they also let me know Jed loves me and it was just an extra thing to let me know he was thinking about me. I love when he surprises me with flowers. It makes my week.
.Books. I love to read. There's nothing better than being lost in a good book. Both kids also love books. One of Elijah's favorite rooms in our new house is the library. I'm always catching him reading to himself or trying to read to Chloe. Chloe's even starting to try to read on her own. I'm also going to include scriptures in this category. We all love to read the scriptures, too. I love learning from them and having my testimony and understanding renewed through the words that have been written. The kids also love the Book of Mormon. They can't go to sleep (or at least refuse to) until we've read our scriptures.
.Snow. If you read my
earlier post on snow, this might surprise you. I'm really grateful for it though (this might change later, but for now it's a keeper). The kids love it and are just so excited about it; who could stand to hate it? Both kids love playing in it. Chloe will keep going out in it even after she keeps telling me "it's cold" and I have a hard time convincing Elijah to come in from it.
.My Van. This year we bought a brand new minivan. I'm so thankful that we have a reliable form of transportation. I'm also happy with how big it is. Seriously, if we kept our old car (which probably would've blown up by now anyways) we wouldn't be able to hold anymore kids in it. We do want more kids, so that would've been an obstacle. I'm grateful for our Sienna and that it moved us here in comfort and without any worries.
.Quiet Moments/Late Nights. I'm definitely a night person. I've always been one. As a mom, after a crazy and hectic day I also love having some quiet time to either spend with Jed or just by my lonesome to do whatever I want.
.My Mattress. We just bought a new mattress, and I love it! We got it for a great price and as soon as I lay down on the bed, even if its just a short moment, I just want to fall asleep. It keeps me well rested which helps me to be a better mom and wife during the day.
.Working Out. Sometimes there's nothing better than working out. I do have to push myself to do it, but it's worth it. Working out not only helps me to be healthy, but it really helps me to have enough energy to chase around my super energetic kids. Since I work out, it also shows the kids the importance of staying healthy and working out, too.
(I'm adding another one)
.Shout. I love Shout stain remover! Without it I wouldn't be able to let my kids wear white at all. It has saved so many of their shirts, especially Elijah's dress shirts. I really wish I had some before and after pictures, because the stuff is amazing... just saying :)